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</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61129.2)</generator><item><title>Douglas Firs were our sanctuary</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/21/douglas-firs-were-our-sanctuary-a-conversation-between-a-and-b.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 19:04:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16451</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>16</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16451.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16451</wfw:commentRss><description>Last year on solstice I posted about the life and death in 2003 of my dear friend Katrina . Her death somehow allowed me to move from my 20 year stint in hospice work. This year on summer solstice, I am again posting about the death of a dear friend,...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/21/douglas-firs-were-our-sanctuary-a-conversation-between-a-and-b.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16451" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/death/default.aspx">death</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/dying+well/default.aspx">dying well</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/euthanasia/default.aspx">euthanasia</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/hospice/default.aspx">hospice</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/practicing+our+dying/default.aspx">practicing our dying</category></item><item><title>assimilate this</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/21/assimilate-this.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 06:09:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16440</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>21</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16440.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16440</wfw:commentRss><description>Don't live that way. ...dress like me ...talk like me ...think like me ...learn like me ...worship like me. In short, see the world as I do. Assimilation photo from wikipedia The study of evolution has opened our eyes to the astounding diversity of ways...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/21/assimilate-this.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16440" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/diversity/default.aspx">diversity</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/one+single+impression/default.aspx">one single impression</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/particularities/default.aspx">particularities</category></item><item><title>How long does it take to grow a feather?</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/18/how-long-does-it-take-to-grow-a-feather.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 18:52:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16430</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16430.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16430</wfw:commentRss><description>They hatched, those chickadee babies, last Saturday, or at least that was the first time I could hear them as I sit on my back porch. By Monday, their requests for ' I need that bug much more than my brother does, Mother' were clearer and more insistent....(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/18/how-long-does-it-take-to-grow-a-feather.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16430" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/multi-tasking/default.aspx">multi-tasking</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/purpose/default.aspx">purpose</category></item><item><title>the *dialectic of ever-bigger circles</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/14/the-dialectic-of-ever-bigger-circles.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 05:59:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16410</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>20</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16410.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16410</wfw:commentRss><description>Outwitted He drew a circle that shut me out - Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout But love and I had the will to win We drew a circle and drew him in. -- Edwin Markham The walls of human understanding have various purposes, textures, designs. But their intent...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/14/the-dialectic-of-ever-bigger-circles.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16410" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/acceptance/default.aspx">acceptance</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/calling+things+by+their+right+name/default.aspx">calling things by their right name</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/compassion/default.aspx">compassion</category></item><item><title>that graffiti is my heart song</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/12/that-graffiti-is-my-heart-song.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 04:09:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16406</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16406.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16406</wfw:commentRss><description>"I do not see this heart thing as abstract or esoteric. Getting to, living in, healing from, being guided through the heart is an actual state that can be achieved. But it is not a state of mind. It is not an attitude, or an affirmation. Rather it is...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/12/that-graffiti-is-my-heart-song.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16406" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/compassion/default.aspx">compassion</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/healing/default.aspx">healing</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/humility/default.aspx">humility</category></item><item><title>blueberries and grief</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/10/blueberries-and-grief.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 13:34:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16392</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>8</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16392.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16392</wfw:commentRss><description>Here's my collage for today. It comes from a space of feeling the wind of the spirit of change and new directions moving through my life. Would love to know any reactions, responses you might have. Technorati Tags: grief , collage...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/10/blueberries-and-grief.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16392" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/amazement/default.aspx">amazement</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/faith/default.aspx">faith</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/gratitude/default.aspx">gratitude</category></item><item><title>something to do, someplace to go, mid-summer</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/08/something-to-do-someplace-to-go-mid-summer.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 14:07:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16383</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16383.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16383</wfw:commentRss><description>Just when you were worried about running out of stuff to do this summer... my friend Buffy from Seattle asked me to post this! It looks like a wonderful event. Anyone who has enjoyed R. Carlos Nakai through recordings, or better yet, live, will enjoy...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/08/something-to-do-someplace-to-go-mid-summer.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16383" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>inter-dependent intersections</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/07/inter-dependent-intersections.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 04:05:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16363</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>24</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16363.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16363</wfw:commentRss><description>Collage I made in mid May. It is one of a series of 7 that has to do with my friend A's life and death. This is about the crossing of the River Styx, Charon the ferryman, and also, on this side of the river, about her love of canoeing. A masthead of a...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/07/inter-dependent-intersections.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16363" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/alchemy/default.aspx">alchemy</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/dreams/default.aspx">dreams</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/liminal+space/default.aspx">liminal space</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/one+single+impression/default.aspx">one single impression</category></item><item><title>sojourn: taking only what we need</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/04/sojourn-taking-only-what-we-need.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:15:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16350</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>4</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16350.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16350</wfw:commentRss><description>This poem was just published in qarrtsiluni ,on online literary journal. It is an experiment in online literary and artistic collaboration. The title comes from an Iñupiaq word that means "sitting together in the darkness, waiting for something to burst."...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/04/sojourn-taking-only-what-we-need.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16350" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/pilgrimage/default.aspx">pilgrimage</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/qarrtsiluni/default.aspx">qarrtsiluni</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/sojourn/default.aspx">sojourn</category></item><item><title>Longing for light</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/04/longing-for-light.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 05:47:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16346</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>6</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16346.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16346</wfw:commentRss><description>We want to go out and play. Why does the crabapple get to have all the fun? Here in the spring, the half-light, the half-heat, We know we could adjust Even though sheltered pets for now. Invitation to the Poetry Party on Ab bey of the Arts. Prompt is...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/04/longing-for-light.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16346" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/light/default.aspx">light</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/longings/default.aspx">longings</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/sehnsucht/default.aspx">sehnsucht</category></item><item><title>Wabi-Sabi: weathering with the storm</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/04/wabi-sabi-weathering-with-the-storm.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 05:13:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16345</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16345.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16345</wfw:commentRss><description>My heartfelt desire is to be a wabibito. Thank you to Mo for sending this excellent piece our way. --Beth Wabi-sabi represents a comprehensive Japanese world view or aesthetic centered on the acceptance of transience. WHAT IS WABI-SABI? -by architect...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/06/04/wabi-sabi-weathering-with-the-storm.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16345" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/soulfulness/default.aspx">soulfulness</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/wabi-sabi/default.aspx">wabi-sabi</category></item><item><title>denouement denounced as dastardly</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/05/31/denouement-denounced-as-dastardly.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 00:08:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16322</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>15</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16322.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16322</wfw:commentRss><description>Is there ever any? Do we need it like rain on seeds? Circles of sparring, rapprochement, tension, resolution. Deja vu all over again. Much like dirty dishes. &amp;#160; Don't know where this wonderful photo came from, except from a friend on email.&amp;#160;&amp;#160;...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/05/31/denouement-denounced-as-dastardly.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16322" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/cycles+of+existence/default.aspx">cycles of existence</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/one+single+impression/default.aspx">one single impression</category></item><item><title>dirty feet as prayer</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/05/24/dirty-feet-as-prayer.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 14:49:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16296</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>17</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16296.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16296</wfw:commentRss><description>I can get meta-physical with the best of them. This week's poem could be called 'let's get un-meta-physical and roll around in the dirt'. Big bow of thanks to Gautami Tripathy of Rooted for this week's One Single Impression prompt, dropped. I bought a...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/05/24/dirty-feet-as-prayer.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16296" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/celebration/default.aspx">celebration</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/digging+in+the+dirt/default.aspx">digging in the dirt</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/patience/default.aspx">patience</category></item><item><title>Bet their hair smelled a bit ripe...</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/05/22/bet-their-hair-smelled-a-bit-ripe.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 04:37:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16289</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>5</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16289.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16289</wfw:commentRss><description>The year is 1909. What a difference one 'short' century makes! These statistics have not been fact-checked, at least by me! The average life expectancy was 47 years. Only 14 percent of the homes had a bathtub. Only 8 percent of the homes had a telephone....(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/05/22/bet-their-hair-smelled-a-bit-ripe.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16289" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/what+it_2700_s+like/default.aspx">what it's like</category></item><item><title>What it's like...rather than what it is</title><link>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/05/19/what-it-s-like-rather-than-what-it-is.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 16:01:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">2c56e291-9724-4c02-a4d3-0e5019e137b1:16268</guid><dc:creator>Beth Patterson</dc:creator><slash:comments>14</slash:comments><comments>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/comments/16268.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/commentrss.aspx?PostID=16268</wfw:commentRss><description>Anthropomorphizing God and God's kingdom is the best most of us, maybe any of us, can do. Similes, metaphors and other analogies are thus the honest homily. This post is part of a synchroblog of other bloggers writing on 'the kingdom of God'. Check out...(&lt;a href="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2009/05/19/what-it-s-like-rather-than-what-it-is.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://virtualteahouse.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16268" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/kingdom+of+God/default.aspx">kingdom of God</category><category domain="http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/tags/what+it_2700_s+like/default.aspx">what it's like</category></item></channel></rss>