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No fixed center: it's all fringe

Encourage borders, outskirts, and temporary isolation where the voltage of difference can spark the new….By definition a network is one huge edge. It has no fixed center. As the network grows it holds increasing opportunities for protected backwaters where innovations can hatch, out of view but plugged in. Once fine-tuned, the innovation can replicate wildly. The global dimensions of the network economy means that an advance can be spread quickly and completely through the globe. The World Wide Web itself was created this way. The first software for the web was written in the relative obscurity of an academic research station in Geneva, Switzerland. Once it was up and running in their own labs in 1991, it spread within six months to computers all around the world.  ---New Rules for the New Economy  Highlights mine.

I’ve been thinking about fringe elements lately.  When I read Kate Fitzpatrick’s amazing first post, Ecotones, on her new blog on the Virtual Tea House, I started reflecting more deeply about transition points and how much potential is stored in those places: intra-personal, intra-family, inter-disciplinary,  inter-community or intra-communities.

Someone has said that among the things that a culture can be judged by, such as how we treat our criminals, our elderly, our insane and our young, is another barometer point.  It’s how we treat our ‘fringe element’.  The nearly crazy artists who bring us such truth from across the veil of sanity that we can barely look at their work.  Those who live in such unconventional ways that we have to struggle with our life-long judgments (for instance, polygamy or for some, polyamory).  Ex-patriots who tell their truth about what they see in our culture, in harsh words (Joe Bageant for instance).  

How do we treat these voices from the edge?  These are not postcards from some place outside of us, but real people living lives of extraordinary truth and an odd grace.  These voices are us if we choose to welcome them in and have tea.

The person who talked to me the most deeply about being a fringe element later spent 18 months in a federal pen for growing marijuana in large quantities in the Northwest USA.  He is one of the gentlest of souls, with  an amazing connection to all plants, and most especially to that connector plant.  He was living on an island off the coast of the US, saying that the US has pushed all who think truly differently out to the fringes.  And that a culture that has no places where the fringe can live and thrive will eventually wither away from being too unilateral, too conventional, too un-friendly to soul.

When I read the post today on KK about innovation excerpted above, I was thinking about how the concept of fringe element works in business.  It’s no different than in any other aspect of human existence.  If a corporation or organization does not know how to cherish, nourish and reward its fringes, it will eventually die from in-breeding of ideas and suffocation of regulation. 

I believe our culture  is in dire need of redefining our center as un-fixed, un-legislated and everywhere. Please do take the time to read Joe Bageant’s most recent post Live from Planet Norte.  

Becoming center and fringe at the same time is no small feat.  However, if we don’t listen to the edge, draw it in, seek it like a mysterious stranger that has inflamed our senses, roll around in its wisdom we are not going to have any fun at all  to say nothing of surviving.  And the center will stay elusive, other and outside of us.

Today has felt like a fringe day for me.  I am not so aware of being ‘a center’,  but I am in touch with knowing that it is only in living in groundedness, working constantly towards the fringe that I experience the grace of my being.  What a crazy mixed up metaphor.  It fits somehow though.

Just so we don’t get too serious about fringes and centers….

 

 

Published Friday, July 02, 2010 10:17 PM by Beth Patterson

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DancesWL said:

This is an "edgy" thought-provoking post, Beth.  As I was thinking about center and edge, I thought of the sages and gurus, they hold the ultimate center but usually choose to exist in the fringe.  Likely they are there because in our current culture being "centered" is the outlier.

I honor the edgey (?sp) fringey parts of you because they challenge and grow those around you as well as bringing beauty and grace to our little part of the world.  Thank you for standing there.

July 3, 2010 12:13 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Thank you, DWL for your kind words.

After posting this, I felt a little crazy, like an unraveling.  But I guess that's necessary to keep growing.

Even plants have to overcome homeostasis to grow...they have to become unbalanced to push outwards...

Thanks again--

July 3, 2010 12:41 PM
 

Kathryn Ruth said:

"...it is only in living in groundedness, working constantly towards the fringe that I experience the grace of my being. "

Beth, you bring up so many great points - including that realizing that the true center is often found on the fringe, instead of where we expected to find it.

I am finding again and again lately, that the most astonishing things happen by approaching our edges. Not thrill-seeking, but reaching the edges of our current understandings, and being willing to step right beyond them.

Thanks for the thought-provoking post!

July 3, 2010 11:11 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

KRS--

YES! That's it-- you said it in one sentence...phew.  By appropaching our edges, and being willing to be 'fringe' towards a perceived center, we become the new center and then must reach out again....but it also removes the idea of center from some fixed place!

THANK YOU!

July 5, 2010 5:57 PM
 

Kate Fitzpatrick said:

Beth, I love this post on fringe- how if we don't explore it, the "center" will stay "elusive, other and outside of us." Giving voice to the stories from the edge is so important, and helps us all keep our middle ground shook up and renewing.  As I was taking down my corkboard today, I found a quote tacked up there that I've loved. It resonates somewhat with what  you write, although along a different geometry- linear, not circular.  "There is no stasis. To stand still is to fall away from the truth; the inner life dims and flickers, starts to go out, as soon as one tries to hold fast. It's like trying to make this breath serve for the next one, or making today's dinner do the work of next Wednesday's as well.... Truth rides the arrow of time."  (author unknown).  Hopefully informed by edginess as it rides forward!

July 5, 2010 11:51 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Kate--

Thank you!

This quote speaks to me so clearly! I'm going to copy it and put it behind something to find at an unexpected time (I'm not having a baby, though, like you, just to find the quote...!).  I really relate to this breath being for this moment, this meal for this hour.  

Really enjoyed this--thank you!

July 6, 2010 12:10 PM
 

tania said:

Eyyyy-yyy-yyah...Dear Beth....Why must you tease me back to the places I most want to avoid right now?  Like an ostrich with my head in the sand, you come and smack me on the tail-feathers, make me look up only to shudder at what I see.  

I'm not entirely sure of how the Live from Planet Norte fits into your thoughts about fringes and centers and would love to explore that more....After spending a week in the back-country, I'm perhaps more aware of -- and disgusted by -- being a Norteian than ever before.  

On Planet Norte there is an enormous gravitational pull to conform...it's all so very black and white here...consume or suffer, live shallow-ly or be swept up by a river of grief, be self-centered and ego-centric or the flood gates of Norteians needing to suck your soul dry will be flung open.

The fact that I started watering my grass to green and lush again is not a small thing.  No one understands or gets the hopelessness in that.  No one even wants to discuss it.  Sort of like the oil disaster.  

I think most of us longing for the fringe are really alluding ourselves that it is different there....maybe less of this and more of that but how different can it truly be when it is made of the same fabric as the center?  I ask this not rhetorically but from a place of confusion..

Perhaps what you write of is the dance between center and fringe on the plane of inner experience and what I question is the dance on the outer plane of culture?  I can resonate with the inner piece like the comments above -- what I don't get is how to reconcile this while living on Planet Norte?

I feel like having some ice water right now so I think I'll get up and get it from my kitchen which is less than 10 feet from me...  

July 11, 2010 11:43 AM

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The Virtual Tea House website became 'word-ripe' when, over a cup of jasmine green, I realized that the web has an expanding part to play in the communal aspects of spiritual growth.

With a master's degree in religion, my career spans 30 years in end of life care and child abuse intervention and advocacy.

Here in beautiful Central Oregon, my spiritual homes of the high desert and the mountains are both in proximity. And for good measure, four hours away is Grandmother Ocean and the stunning Oregon Coast.

I'm making decent progress on the goal set by my mother early on: she taught us that the goal of humanity should be to become ever-more eccentric, i.e. more fully human.

Entering the 'forest-dweller' phase of life, I am honored to host the Virtual Tea House for all who wish to explore how our lives are enriched and made new a thousand times each day by the spirituality we embody. Exploring this engagement together is the purpose of the Virtual Tea House.

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