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Beth Patterson

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it’s got everything to do with it

 

...what’s love got to do, got to do with it?

what’s love but a second hand emotion?*

 

Been thinking lately

About how love is both universal

   and probably the most misunderstood human state of being.

 

What’s love got to do with it?

It’s easier to say what love is not.

It’s not a feeling.

It’s probably not comprehensible.

It’s not lust, although that may be a doorway.

It’s not about being in it, and then out of it.

 

What might it be like, then?

A force that requires learning about our universal human frailties.

A mirror for un-doing our perceptions about ‘the other’.

The sense of being a small but vital part of the universe

         as when an infant wraps her fingers

         around yours as she struggles to release to sleep

         and then drifts off, feeling your presence and care:

         you see her and she sees you

         clearly and with compassion.

 

Love just might be the driving force that is leading us Home.

 

*NAM-MYOHO-RENGE-KYO, Nirchiren Buddhist chant.  This popular chant has helped millions, including Tina and me, to find peace and a sense of perspective, transcendence and a sense of self-mastery.

Nam (devotion): Devoting one’s life to this law through faith, practice, and study, one can attain enlightenment.

Myoho (mystic law): Symbolizing the mysterious nature of life that we rarely even glimpse, to say nothing of fathoming.

Renge (cause and effect): Perceiving life through the universal law of cause and effect.

Kyo (sound or vibration): The ultimate universal truth expressed through sound/vibration. (Most ancient religious traditions speak to the power of sound--the words we speak, made up of sacred sounds are far more powerful and complex than we know.)

This mantra assumes it is possible for all individuals to attain buddhahood, or awakening.  Buddhahood is often misconceived as a transcendental or esoteric state.  However, Nirchiren Buddhists view enlightenment as an attainable life condition, characterized by boundless hope, positive energy, courage, wisdom, and compassion.

 

This offering is for this week’s One Single Impression prompt, love.  The week's prompt is from Cassiopeia Rises.

Published Monday, May 31, 2010 10:41 AM by Beth Patterson

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Tumblewords said:

An extraordinarily lovely post - thanks for the information on the chant.

May 31, 2010 1:32 PM
 

The Dark Lord said:

A very insightful writeup... Love could indeed be the driving force..

May 31, 2010 3:11 PM
 

Tammie said:

I enjoyed your exploration of love. I found myself nodding to your thoughts and insights. There are so many words that if we asked 100 people or even ten what it means we would get that many different answers. Love is one of them.

May 31, 2010 8:00 PM
 

Deanna St. Germain said:

"characterized by boundless hope, positive energy, courage, wisdom, and compassion" sign me up, PLEASE!  Thanks for this, Beth.

May 31, 2010 10:51 PM
 

Amity said:

What's love got to do with it? I know that song...it's familiar Beth!

But love has really got to do with it! A proof that it is a many splendored thing...:)

Thanks Beth for this lovely take! The line keeps coming back to me now!

June 1, 2010 4:37 AM
 

Sweetest in the Gale said:

What beautiful and wise words you have written! I enjoyed this so much.

June 1, 2010 7:53 AM
 

SisterJulia said:

Mmmmm Lovely post, and I am smitten with the sound of 'boundless hope'.

Love.

June 1, 2010 1:59 PM
 

SandyCarlson said:

Loving should be as natural and easy as breathing, walking, eating, looking....

June 2, 2010 9:10 PM
 

Carlos Gesmundo said:

Thanks for sharing your insights!

June 2, 2010 11:08 PM
 

Ramesh Sood said:

What a take on Love.. it's enlightening... I feel enhanced..

June 5, 2010 12:23 PM

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About Beth Patterson

The Virtual Tea House website became 'word-ripe' when, over a cup of jasmine green, I realized that the web has an expanding part to play in the communal aspects of spiritual growth.

With a master's degree in religion, my career spans 30 years in end of life care and child abuse intervention and advocacy.

Here in beautiful Central Oregon, my spiritual homes of the high desert and the mountains are both in proximity. And for good measure, four hours away is Grandmother Ocean and the stunning Oregon Coast.

I'm making decent progress on the goal set by my mother early on: she taught us that the goal of humanity should be to become ever-more eccentric, i.e. more fully human.

Entering the 'forest-dweller' phase of life, I am honored to host the Virtual Tea House for all who wish to explore how our lives are enriched and made new a thousand times each day by the spirituality we embody. Exploring this engagement together is the purpose of the Virtual Tea House.

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