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joy, unearthed

This poem is a response to a Poetry Party that is hosted regularly at Abbey of the Arts.  This  particular 'party' as part of Advent is about true joy…that essence deeper than happiness. It is the bedrock from which we grow as children, then learn to dampen it down/dummy it down with mere 'happiness'.  Finally, as we begin the descent of midlife, or do the work of stripping away layers of defenses, can again become the ground from which we move and have our being.

Like many others, since childhood I’ve had a hard time with the Christmas holidays.  All the ghosts of Christmas past come creeping in, and I struggle with an inane emptiness, a discordant sadness that has nothing to do with now, but rather some emotional imprint on my brain associated with all that the holiday brings. 

So this year, I’m wanting to make the holidays the same as every other day: an opportunity to remove the barriers to love.

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The radical party we are invited to

requires

a turning of our minds

inward and outward

towards the Light

birthing a knowing 

Beyond all measure

Beyond all hope

We are made of the stardust of Love.

  The Heart of creation.

That’s all we are.

 

Each interaction

each potential source of dis-ease

hustle bustle busyness crazy driving too much too many gatherings I wish it would all go away

can, with a slight repentance

a minuscule turning of our mind

become the Manger

the Crux

the place where God is born

and stardust is made manifest.

“We are all meant to be mothers of God - God is always needing to be born.”   –Meister Eckhart

 

Published Sunday, December 13, 2009 6:18 PM by Beth Patterson
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Twitted by MyraB said:

December 13, 2009 6:21 PM
 

DancesWL said:

Thanks for this, Beth.  This is an extraordinarily hard season for me since my Mom loved and lived for Christmas, for making it better for us than it was for her childhood.  She shopped all year, obsessively balancing total spent and number of packages so no one ever felt less than.  These are the most treasured of memories I hold of her and my childhood, and since she died, it has been a challenge to find the Spirit without also finding the grief.  So, it comes again this year, but there is nothing wrong with feeling the Love and the grief and letting them both wash through.  Thanks for articulating this so well, for capturing it and turning it toward the Light.  Many blessings to you and yours.  Always...

December 13, 2009 7:43 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Thank you, Dances...

What a sweet memory of your mother...I love your wanting to hold the love and the grief, the bitter and the sweet in your soul, like the most welcome of chocolates, discovering the nuances of each until, well until.

Thank you for your wonderful thoughts--you are an enigma!

December 13, 2009 8:36 PM
 

SandyCarlson said:

This is a beautiful post. I have a friend who works hard to toss up those barriers to love. And his life has become one failed relationship after another. On and on. I pray and hope that the light will make it to his heart, that he will understand deeply how loved he is and learn to love back. With a confident heart. Thank you for strengthening me with your words.

December 13, 2009 8:54 PM
 

tania said:

"So this year, I’m wanting to make the holidays the same as every other day: an opportunity to remove the barriers to love."   What a beautiful line that is!  I'll be with my family in Phoenix for Christmas and could use a reminder of that about ever 5 minutes!  Actually, come to think of it, tomorrow I'll be at work and could also use a reminder about it every 5 minutes.

December 13, 2009 9:45 PM
 

jeeves said:

Lovely one. Thanks for sharing. these lines are my fav

the place where God is born

and stardust is made manifest.

December 13, 2009 11:59 PM
 

Ribbon said:

simply beautiful  :)

best wishes

Ribbon

December 14, 2009 4:57 AM
 

Abbey of the Arts said:

This is wonderful Beth - i love the image of the radical party and those last five lines are stunning.  Thanks for the Poetry Party offering!

December 15, 2009 3:24 PM

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About Beth Patterson

The Virtual Tea House website became 'word-ripe' when, over a cup of jasmine green, I realized that the web has an expanding part to play in the communal aspects of spiritual growth.

With a master's degree in religion, my career spans 20 years in end of life care and I currently work in the field of child abuse intervention and advocacy.

Here in beautiful Central Oregon, my spiritual homes of the high desert and the mountains are both in proximity. And for good measure, four hours away is Grandmother Ocean and the stunning Oregon Coast.

I'm making decent progress on the goal set by my mother early on: she taught us that the goal of humanity should be to become ever-more eccentric, i.e. more fully human.

Entering the 'forest-dweller' phase of life, I am honored to host the Virtual Tea House for all who wish to explore how our lives are enriched and made new a thousand times each day by the spirituality we embody. Exploring this engagement together is the purpose of the Virtual Tea House.

Welcome! Let's have a cup of virtual tea together and share what brings us joy, what we are being taught by life, how we are leaning into the Big Questions posed to us each day in sometimes 'distressing disguises'.

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