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Ten things I learned this week--November 15, 2009

Second in this series--I am beginning to feel the practice of it. When I'm walking the dog, cooking a meal, washing my hair, I'm wondering 'what in this experience may be one of those precious ten things I'm learning this week'?  Not that of course I can't learn more than ten.  But one has to work up to stuff like this, like starting with 5 lb weights in physical training!

 So here are my ten learnings for this past week.

1. Letting sleeping dogs lie can have a high pricetag. So can waking them up.

2. Letting one's friends hold one accountable for a big life goal is terrorizing.

3. Having 6 community gatherings in one's home in 8 days is a little over the top.

4. At best, developing community is a messy, organic process.

5. Not taking one's self seriously can be a fun process.  Or not.

6. Watching a comedian together with friends who find the same humor funny  quintuples the fun.

7. A remembering: juniper wood burns very hot, but not long.

8. Having an over-extended calendar is a poor excuse for a life.

9. Watching a 46 second clip of a young doe elk playing in a shallow pool of water high in the mountains made me happier than just about anything this entire week.

10. 'It's been a slow  turning....from the inside out.  A slow  turning, baby, but you come about....a slow  learning....but you learn to sway ...it's been a slow  turning. Time is short and here's the damn thing about it--you're gonna die, gonna die for sure. You can learn to live with love or without it, but there ain't no cure...there's just a slow  turning.' --John Hiatt, Slow Turning

So...what did you learn this week? You can post as a comment, or to your own blog.  This practice of life-reflection for a few minutes each week may hook you!

Published Sunday, November 15, 2009 11:50 AM by Beth Patterson
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tania said:

My week isn't over yet which is a good thing because I need a few more days to figure all my learnings out.  

I can't help but wonder how point #8 (in concert with #10) will evolve for you...Point #8 is such a simple sentence yet it seems like one of those learnings that could have outrageous impact...perhaps an epiphany??

Such a cool exercise you've hatched...

November 16, 2009 12:19 PM
 

tania said:

So here are my 10:

1)  Breathing is good...very good.

2)  I don't really like or want "crap" food.

3)  Feeling melancholy doesn't kill me.

4)  A day spent feeling sad isn't necessarily wasted and it's certainly not the end of the world.

5)  I can only do so much despite my intentions.

6)  I really don't like stress.

7)  Being kind to people I don't necessarily like actually makes me feel more authentic.

8)  I'm really not stretched all that thin.

9)  There is a plan that is far beyond what I'm doing now that is unfolding.

10) I want to be graceful when I stand up in my boundaries but that just won't "count" for some and that truly is about them...not me.

November 18, 2009 12:16 AM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Dear Tania--

I love your learnings!  I'm enjoying this practice a lot--help keep me focused, ok? So if some week I don't post to the 10 things, maybe you can do it first?

I especially liked #7...

November 18, 2009 2:04 AM

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The Virtual Tea House website became 'word-ripe' when, over a cup of jasmine green, I realized that the web has an expanding part to play in the communal aspects of spiritual growth.

With a master's degree in religion, my career spans 20 years in end of life care and I currently work in the field of child abuse intervention and advocacy.

Here in beautiful Central Oregon, my spiritual homes of the high desert and the mountains are both in proximity. And for good measure, four hours away is Grandmother Ocean and the stunning Oregon Coast.

I'm making decent progress on the goal set by my mother early on: she taught us that the goal of humanity should be to become ever-more eccentric, i.e. more fully human.

Entering the 'forest-dweller' phase of life, I am honored to host the Virtual Tea House for all who wish to explore how our lives are enriched and made new a thousand times each day by the spirituality we embody. Exploring this engagement together is the purpose of the Virtual Tea House.

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