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Beth Patterson

On not making a travesty of tapestry

I don't believe in coincidence.

I don't believe in serendipity.

I do believe in synchronicity.

The difference? 

The first term is random.

The second term is whimsical.

The third makes me want to view the tapestry from the front side

instead of always from the knotty, messy back.

 Life's rich tapestry by Today is a good day.

flickr photo: Today is a good day

This is this week's submission for One Single Impression (prompt 32): Serendipity 

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Published Sunday, October 05, 2008 12:25 PM by Beth Patterson

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teric said:

I love it!  It's just great!!

October 5, 2008 10:17 PM
 

SandyCarlson said:

Beth,

That is wonderful. Just wonderful. I have read this several times and enjoyed it. I am thinking of the front and back of the tapestry. It is good to simply enjoy the completed, wonderful thing as is. And let the rest be. Thanks for this.

October 5, 2008 10:26 PM
 

Deborah Godin said:

I liked this a lot, too, and good acvice. The CD looks interesting, too, think I'll go check it out further...I'm always interesed in mew music.

October 5, 2008 11:44 PM
 

Jim said:

Hi Beth, this is sooooo gooood!  :-)

I too like to see the tapestry from both sides (literally) but my life has pretty well been chance.  I used to call it 'open doors' but now with all these writers and their viewpoints perhaps I should say I was guided in life by 'serendipity.'

My poem is true, I was not looking for Mrs. Jim or anyone else that night, i just wanted a meal with friends.

Other aspects of my life were that way, employment, marriage, children, setbacks with 'silver linings' and just a lot of other things.  God has been good to me.  Even when I didn't do much planning.  

..

I looked for your "voice in the dryer" but it has long gone.  Do you have an archieve accessible to us?

..

October 6, 2008 12:08 AM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Hi Jim--thanks for your comment!

Here's the permalink for the 'Voice from inside the dryer':

http://virtualteahouse.com/blogs/beth/archive/2007/11/11/a-voice-from-inside-the-dryer.aspx

Not sure why you couldn't view it.  Having some troubles with my site...

Thanks again for your comment and stopping by--

October 6, 2008 12:25 AM
 

Anthony North said:

Very cleverly done - in words, and the idea behind them.

October 6, 2008 4:19 AM
 

Sandy said:

I am laughing as I read this. My needlework looks like hell from the back. I would hate to be judged by it! Good poem.

October 6, 2008 6:42 AM
 

carole (watermaid) said:

Your take on serendipity certainly gives pause for thought.

October 6, 2008 7:47 AM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Hi you all--

Your thoughtful comments are so helpful--many thanks. I love reading your takes on these prompts--I look forward to it each week now!

Beth

October 6, 2008 10:33 AM
 

Tumblewords said:

I love the 'front and back' visual...Nice work!

October 6, 2008 2:18 PM
 

zoya gautam said:

hi beth,

ur poem is delightful

many thanks..

October 6, 2008 6:38 PM
 

susan said:

The third makes me want to view the tapestry from the front side

instead of always from the knotty, messy back.

Can argue with this. lol

October 6, 2008 9:27 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Thanks zoya and Tumblewords...

Susan, did you mean you 'can't' argue with this? Because if you meant you 'can' argue with this, I'd love to hear more about that!!!

October 6, 2008 10:38 PM
 

Karen C said:

Dear Beth,

I love the way your mind works. Or maybe it's:  I love that you've worked your mind.

This is satisfying and refreshing.

Thanks for thinking what you're thinking.

October 7, 2008 8:59 AM
 

qualcosa di bello said:

a very clever perception!  & it is a good reminder to take a step back & turn things over from time to time...

October 7, 2008 3:53 PM
 

Barb's Haiku said:

Loved this Beth! Yes, serendipity is pure whimsy in that it is both unpredictable and always unexpected! Speaking as a crafter of quilts, afghans and more, I look at both sides of everything! However, when done properly, even the back is not messy and knotty!

October 7, 2008 8:20 PM
 

Nathalie (spacedlaw) said:

I am curious so always tend to turn things over to see the tiny knots but that does not stop from enjoying the tapestry.

October 8, 2008 8:21 AM
 

Beth Patterson said:

qualcosa di bella, Barb and Nathalie--it's nice to hear from you that you also are aware of the backsides of life...my problem seems to be that I sometimes get focused on the back--and my 'knots' are not always so neat and tidy!!  Your thoughtful comments made me smile.  Thank you!

And Karen C.--I think it's that spirit is transforming my mind over time, like water on rock...thank you so much for your kindness!

Beth

October 8, 2008 9:51 AM
 

Bill Ellis said:

Why am I reminded of Joni Mitchell?  

"I've looked at life from both sides now,

from up and down and still somehow

its life's illusions I recall,

I really don't know life at all."  

Grateful very much for the poem; it took me back to "another time's forgotten space."  

October 8, 2008 6:38 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Thank you, Bill.

That Joni...

October 9, 2008 2:00 AM
 

Christine said:

Very fine.  The front holds the essence of the artistry and the back reveals the effort, time and labor...

October 10, 2008 10:36 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

And I have to take the time to look at the front now and then! Thanks for stopping by, Christine!

October 11, 2008 2:24 PM

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About Beth Patterson

The Virtual Tea House website became 'word-ripe' when, over a cup of jasmine green, I realized that the web has an expanding part to play in the communal aspects of spiritual growth.
One of my favorite hats, among several is: initiated firekeeper in the Sacred Fire Community. Hosting a monthly community fire circle, I'm being taught that the simple act of sitting around a fire with the intent of holding open-hearted space makes for some soulful community!
With a master's degree in religion, my career spans 20 years in end of life care and I currently work in the field of child abuse intervention and advocacy.
Here in beautiful Central Oregon, my spiritual homes of the high desert and the mountains are both in proximity. And for good measure, four hours away is Grandmother Ocean and the stunning Oregon Coast.
I'm making decent progress on the goal set by my mother early on: she taught us that the goal of humanity should be to become ever-more eccentric, i.e. more fully human.
Entering the 'forest-dweller' phase of life, I am honored to host the Virtual Tea House for all who wish to explore how our lives are enriched and made new a thousand times each day by the spirituality we embody. Exploring this engagement together is the purpose of the Virtual Tea House.
Welcome! Let's have a cup of virtual tea together and share what brings us joy, what we are being taught by life, how we are leaning into the Big Questions posed to us each day in sometimes 'distressing disguises'.

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