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One Way: Out of the Frying Pan and into the Fire

After years of indoctrination

In which there was always a way

that seemeth right unto a man but the end thereof is the way of death*

Aching eyes of my heart saw a deeper truth in these words: 

that the way that judges the rightness of a way leads to death of the spirit.

So, I  left the Country of One Way and lit out, like Tom Sawyer, down the river.

 

Took out of that river here in a messy place:

The Country of No Right Way.

Our borders are semi-permeable to our beloved neighbors:

The Country of No Wrong Way.

Our patron saint is Jalāl-ad-Dīn Muhammad, beloved Rumi.

Among other crazy things, he stands on mountains and out in deserts and spouts craziness:

"Out beyond the idea of wrong doing or right doing,

there is a field.  I'll meet you there."

 

Having made that tryst, it's natural to desire to live in that field. 

 

But in the Land-of-no-right-way-and-no-wrong-way,

the living grayness is shaded and variegated.

it is striated, secularized, homogenized.

Without constant, unceasing vigilance,

the grays subtly become the new

right or wrong.  

 

There is a way that seemeth right...and if black and white don't grab us

shades of gray may suffice.

* Proverbs 14:12

 

This poem is an entry to the Totally Optional Prompts weekly writing invitations. This week's topic is 'One Way'.

 

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Published Wednesday, August 27, 2008 5:02 PM by Beth Patterson

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Karen C said:

Oh, Beth.

I want to lie down in the heart of this poem. I want to pull it over me like a blanket.

And perhaps, if I could let myself know this--that there is a no wrong way, I would get up and move around more. If I could say there is no one right way, I could let myself sit still.

But I should keep someone with me, so I don't start running in circles. A buddy.

Preferably one who could tell me more about Rumi.

So.... what are you doin?

August 28, 2008 1:24 AM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Dear Karen--

If you want to know about Rumi, you will do best to find a field, any field will do.  If you sit in it and talk with the grass and the grasshoppers and the field mice, and the sparrow hawks that eat the field mice, they will tell you about the great Rumi.  

They will tell you about love that is so boundless that no concept (of right/wrong or anything else) can contain it.  They will tell you that it resides in you--closer than your own skin.

That's all I know, today, is to point you towards the field.   I'll meet you there.

August 28, 2008 10:59 AM
 

gautami said:

I simply adore Rumi. His words are timeless.

In life, there can never be a wrong way. Its just the way!

<a href="http://firmlyrooted.blogspot.com/2008/08/making-inroads-into-i-know-not-what.html">making inroads into I know what not</a>

August 28, 2008 11:02 AM
 

Tumblewords said:

Ah, lovely. Yes, a field, a grass and Rumi.

August 28, 2008 1:05 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Here's a trailer to a new movie: Traitor.  Themes of gray...

movies.nytimes.com/2008/08/27/movies/27trai.html?8mu&emc=mua1

August 29, 2008 11:32 AM
 

Lirone said:

ah, so many religions are about telling people what not to do, not allowing people to develop their own way!

August 29, 2008 5:23 PM
 

stan ski said:

That field exists - unfortunately for most, it's only in our own mind.

August 29, 2008 7:15 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

Hi Stan and Lirone and Gautami and Tumblewords--all my new friends at TOP--thank you for visiting and for your insights.  I will try to get 'in the traces' for the next poetry offering--but this one came out as a story of some odd sort...

And, yes, the field does exist--and it has to exist first in our own minds, I think.  The really wonderful thing is that I 'm beginning to really know that if it's in my mind, it's in everyone's mind.  Maybe we have just different tolerances to awareness of that field...

Thank youse for visiting the Virtual Tea House--hope you come back soon and stay long!

August 30, 2008 10:42 AM
 

Beth Patterson said:

I like a term I just saw on somebody's site called 'out-doctrination'....

August 30, 2008 12:27 PM
 

sisterjulia said:

Sometimes I love that we swim through this constant sea of right and wrongs...leaving us to turn things over again and again in our mind and hearts, like turning a pebble in our hand...until finally each right and each wrong cracks open to reveal the same truth inside.

A constant marvel and re-receivng of the original gift, the obvious secret hidden in every way.

Big Kiss

P.S. I don't know why but it's taken me days to be able to read this post straight through..it was a little mystical journey all of it's own!

September 1, 2008 11:07 AM
 

Karen Cox said:

Good Morning Beth,

I am grateful for what your sharing brought me :  such comfort as I desire to spend my life in that field..in my heart and mind..wherever I carry it.  Real fields also work well..Rumi speaks such truth as well as another favorite:  Hafiz

"If God invited you to a party, and said,

Everyone in the ballroom will be my special guest.  How would you then treat them when you arrived?  Indeed, indeed!  We know that there is no one in this world who is not upon HIS jeweled dance floor."

This right/wrong,  good/bad, black/white judgement place is where I often hold myself and my feelings and I am challenging that .  I seem to have more compassion for others...that comes more easily.  Yep, there's my path!~The country of No Wrong way is my destination!!  How freeing!

September 1, 2008 2:24 PM

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The Virtual Tea House website became 'word-ripe' when, over a cup of jasmine green, I realized that the web has an expanding part to play in the communal aspects of spiritual growth.
One of my favorite hats, among several is: initiated firekeeper in the Sacred Fire Community. Hosting a monthly community fire circle, I'm being taught that the simple act of sitting around a fire with the intent of holding open-hearted space makes for some soulful community!
With a master's degree in religion, my career spans 20 years in end of life care and I currently work in the field of child abuse intervention and advocacy.
Here in beautiful Central Oregon, my spiritual homes of the high desert and the mountains are both in proximity. And for good measure, four hours away is Grandmother Ocean and the stunning Oregon Coast.
I'm making decent progress on the goal set by my mother early on: she taught us that the goal of humanity should be to become ever-more eccentric, i.e. more fully human.
Entering the 'forest-dweller' phase of life, I am honored to host the Virtual Tea House for all who wish to explore how our lives are enriched and made new a thousand times each day by the spirituality we embody. Exploring this engagement together is the purpose of the Virtual Tea House.
Welcome! Let's have a cup of virtual tea together and share what brings us joy, what we are being taught by life, how we are leaning into the Big Questions posed to us each day in sometimes 'distressing disguises'.

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