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Where's Home? What a way to run a contest!

The 'Where's Home?' writing contest/exercise has been so much fun.  I've gotten entries from people all over the continent--and one from across the waters.  Some have been pithy, some complex.  Some have illustrations or photos and many didn't and our imaginations can fill in the blanks. 

It's really hard to say who THE winner is--as everyone who read the invitation to participate, all those who actually did participate, and then all those who will read the entries as they come out into the world--all are winners--if we did even a smidgeon of the work of thinking and feeling our way towards home.

And so I'm taking out a small business loan to buy heirloom wildflowers for the Winner(s) (just kidding).  I want to, and just may,send each person who entered some seeds as a token of appreciation and a metaphor for their continuing pilgrimage.  Each one touched my heart in a particular way, and opened me to the writer's sense of home through visual, auditory and kinesthetic experiences.

That being said, some touched me more deeply than others.  I'm owning my subjectivity here.  But you as readers will, through the next 10 days or so, get to read all the entries and see if my subjectivity was off in left-field) sitting just outside the wildflower patch, having a picnic.

To kick us off--2 minimalists. Even though these are not winners with a capital W, and I don't think these 2 friends of mine ever thought that their little one-liner emails would be considered entries--nor their voices necessarily of any importance (!!), I entered them! It's a friend's prerogative and I thought you all would enjoy their brevity and  clarity..

First, from my friend Pat M. who lives in North Carolina and is one of the most profound, quiet, welcoming  presences I've ever had the privilege to encounter.  The hundreds of hospice patients she has cared for in their homes, nursing homes, inpatient units and hospitals have had the feeling and sense of security and 'home' brought to them in the form of an extraordinary nurse.  Her one line in response to the email about entering the contest:

Oh my, home is right inside our hearts and we share it with all living things.

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And second, an 'entry' from my friend Margie L. who takes care of every one who comes into her sphere of care with an amazing sense of love and honoring. Margie anticipates her friends' needs before they even know they have one. For example, one time she brought me one of those fake stone key hiding spots and left it on my front porch because she had overheard me telling another friend about where I'd hid my house key--like 'over the this and under the that and hope you can find it'   kind of description.  Without even letting on that she realized that I needed one of those key thingys, she went and found one, in her busy life, and left it without a note, and I had to figure out who gifted it to me. It really wasn't too hard a guess. Here's Margie's one line response to the invitation:

It's what the bee says as he returns to the hive.

So we're off and running. More to come--look each day for an entry or two.  The big, final winners with a capital W will come close to the end.

Published Sunday, June 29, 2008 6:44 AM by Beth Patterson
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Liara Covert said:

Earth angels are the sorts of people who inspire and encourage in very profound and personal ways.  Thanks for sharing this story.

July 3, 2008 1:58 AM
 

Karen C said:

I love both of these "minimalist" entries.

I am especially touched by the one about bees. Don't know what it is, but bees are a theme for me this week.

First,my daughter saw some special on PBS kids and she keeps referencing it to me: "Mom, do you know there is only one queen and she is like having babies ALL THE TIME," and "Mom, did you know that the Queen and the worker bees are all females and they only make the males when they want them. The males are called drones and they don't really do anything..." When then make jokes about her dad and her brother and housework (ha, ha, ha...).

Plus, maybe it is my new lotion... bees keep landing on my hands these days. They just sort of sit there and have a rest and wiggle their little bee butts up and down. I inspect them closely and sit still and keep my eye on their stingers. And I try to send them love, which is something I read in (look at the next paragraph...)

Finally I just finished The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd about a week ago, and I loved it so so much, and Margie's "entry" was a very August Boatwright thing to say (for those of you who've read it--if you haven't you REALLY SHOULD, it's so wonderful).

After reading Margie's entry, I was recalling an epigraph to one of the chapters that Kidd took from "The Queen Must Die: And Other Affairs of Bees and Men" by William Longgood:

"Honeybees depend not only on physical contact with the colony, but also require its social companionship and support. Isolate a honeybee from her sisters, and she will soon die."

Yep, sounds like home to me.

July 3, 2008 11:55 PM
 

Beth Patterson said:

While I'm working on unveiling the 'Where's Home?' loveliness --here's some pics taken with my trusty

July 5, 2008 1:47 PM

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About Beth Patterson

The Virtual Tea House website became 'word-ripe' when, over a cup of jasmine green, I realized that the web has an expanding part to play in the communal aspects of spiritual growth.
One of my favorite hats, among several is: initiated firekeeper in the Sacred Fire Community. Hosting a monthly community fire circle, I'm being taught that the simple act of sitting around a fire with the intent of holding open-hearted space makes for some soulful community!
With a master's degree in religion, my career spans 20 years in end of life care and I currently work in the field of child abuse intervention and advocacy.
Here in beautiful Central Oregon, my spiritual homes of the high desert and the mountains are both in proximity. And for good measure, four hours away is Grandmother Ocean and the stunning Oregon Coast.
I'm making decent progress on the goal set by my mother early on: she taught us that the goal of humanity should be to become ever-more eccentric, i.e. more fully human.
Entering the 'forest-dweller' phase of life, I am honored to host the Virtual Tea House for all who wish to explore how our lives are enriched and made new a thousand times each day by the spirituality we embody. Exploring this engagement together is the purpose of the Virtual Tea House.
Welcome! Let's have a cup of virtual tea together and share what brings us joy, what we are being taught by life, how we are leaning into the Big Questions posed to us each day in sometimes 'distressing disguises'.

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