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  • Lenten reflection 5: I’m probably way off base

    A New Kind of Christianity: Ten Questions That are Transforming the Faith

    A New Kind of Christianity: Ten Questions That are Transforming the Faith by Brian McLaren

    A Christian synchroblog that I have written with sometimes in the last few years has sort of gone extinct.  Every now and again a theme for a synchronized blog raises its head from the mire of the busy bloggers’ lives. When Steve Hayes suggested that we all write about the 10 questions from Brian McLaren’s new book, at first I harumphed, knowing that McLaren is not my flavor of Christian, but he is admired by many people that I admire, so I thought I better get over myself and at least read the questions.  

    McLaren is an evangelical post-modern Christian.  And what, might you say, is THAT animal?  Well, you should read about his truly ground breaking work on one of my favorite blogs ‘Homebrewed Christianity’.  He and Richard Rohr are tight.  Along with some other big thinkers like Phyllis Tickle.  So his ideas and work have great validity.  Anglican bishop Alan Wilson says on his blog Bishop Alan’s Blog: Discipleship starts with 10 Questions

    You may find his answers disturbing, but I challenge any who care about following Jesus today not to profit from asking these questions. However you answer them, they supply an agenda for anyone wanting to follow Jesus honestly and authentically. Read this Book.

    But I have to say, in respect and humility: are these the best questions he can come up with?  I have not yet read the book, and I’m sure his answers will be enlightening.  But the questions…ah, they leave my heart a stone.

    Someone has said, ‘never trade a great question for a mediocre answer.’   Good advice.  And vicey versa.

    Brian McLaren’s Ten questions:

    1. What is the overarching story line of the Bible?  
    2. How should the Bible be understood?  
    3. Is God violent? 
    4. Who is Jesus and why is he important?
    5. What is the Gospel?
    6. What do we do about the Church?
    7. Can we find a way to address human sexuality without fighting about it?
    8. Can we find a better way of viewing the future?   
    9. How should followers of Jesus relate to people of other religions? 
    10. How can we translate our quest into action?

    Sorry, my friendly synchrobloggers.  I can’t do these questions.  The only one that remotely speaks to me is the first one, and that’s because it involves speaking the truth in mythological language. 


    OK, OK… eventually I’ll read the book.

     

    In the meantime here are my own ten questions, for what they’re worth. Not sure that wrestling with them would change the world, but it does change my world. 

    1. How is the membrane of any cell in my body similar to the surface of the earth?

    2. How does the human heart perceive truth, beauty, wisdom?

    3. Since the wisdom of the ancient ones and the elders is available to us in so many forms, what is it going to take for us to actually listen to what they have to say?

    4. What if Jesus had really said something like this to the woman at the well, “If you knew that all you had to do was get in the River of Life and let it overtake you, you would then become the River and you would never thirst again.”

    5. What if the Bible is only a snapshot of truth, a collection of moments that is no more or less important than any other moments of expressed wisdom?  What if revelation is truly not only on-going, but comes from a host of sources—including animals, rocks and the sky?

    6. Why do we weep at the blue of a baby’s eye?

    7. What if God really is a process and is hosted in our cellular memory: learning and mutating and hurting and changing?

    8. What if the only book we ever needed to 'read' was to look carefully, prayerfully at a microbe or a constellation?

    9. What if the muffled screams of Congolese women who are being raped and tortured is the groan of God being heard as if for the first time? Like a birth-pang of a new universe?

    10. What if the dead bodies of supposedly failed summiteers that litter the sides of the highest Himalayan mountains are the only offerings that those sacred mountains will accept in exchange for their degradation? What if these frozen facsimiles of humans are thus keeping the world intact?

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    Anyone want to answer any of these questions or write your own?

    This post is also the 5th in a series of Lenten reflections. Over the time of Lent friends and I are doing a Lenten study course with Christine Valters Paintner from the wonderful  Abbey of the Arts I will be writing some of my reflections, returning to ancient practices that can help me renew my most sacred vows.  This is not easy or done without discernment, having left most religious ‘trappings’ behind.  But I’m feeling drawn to revisit and see them with new eyes, as if for the first time.  I hope you will consider traveling with me/us on this pilgrimage to the Heart of the Matter.   There are challenges to just reading the words of Biblical scripture. Challenges to allowing my heart door to creak open to their meaning, much of which feels so irrelevant and discordant with what I know of God's love to be.  And I’m determined to be on my way.

    Lenten reflection 1: Ashes on my third eye

    Lenten reflection 2: Having it my way

    Lenten reflection 3: Hell is breaking out in the kingdom of God

    Lenten reflection 4: Four words

     

     

  • no worries, it’s just my hesitatin' heart

     

    If the car stutters just a fragment

    immediately I go into diagnostic mode:

    how long has it been

       since the oil was changed?

    how’s about that timing belt?

    wonder what’s in the gas line?

    wonder what I should do for better carburetion?

     

    And then my heart does the same thing

    and I brush it off with

       it’s just a murmur.

       it’s just that I forgot to take my hormones for a week or two.

       it’s just that I drink too much caffeine.

       it’s just that I’m not getting enough rest.

     

    Something that’s supposed to purr along for 200,000 miles

       or 96 years

    Isn’t supposed to hesitate

    even for a fraction of  second.

     

    It’s odd that I worry more about my car’s off-beat than my heart’s distress call.

    Maybe my heart is more just an elegant machine. 

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    Made out of those  silly Valentine candy hearts.  Found originally on Patti Digh’s site 37 days.

    Thanks to  wonderful poet and photographer Nathalie of A Title? What's in a Title? I Was Never Told There Should be a Title! for this week's One Single Impression prompt, hesitation.  Don’t miss a beat and run over to find some startling poems about the prompt!

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  • Guest post by David Santangelo: We are the Ones We’ve Been Waiting For

    I recently met a new friend, who is a friend of several ‘old’ friends (most of them in the 20’s and 30’s!).  David has the gravitas of an elder, even though he is young in years.  I am sitting with his new book, ‘The Way Home’, soon to be released, and marveling at the message and the messenger.  More about David and his journey later, as he will soon be a blogger for the Virtual Tea House.  For now, here’s an intro to the message and hence, the book.  NOTE: The title of the book caught my breath, as we hosted the contest a couple of years back about ‘where’s home?’ here on the VTH.  It’s a topic that is near and dear to my heart and grows in importance each day.    --Beth, VTH Host  

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    2012 and The River of Time: An Intro to the Hopi Poem

    Thank you for inviting me into the Virtual Tea House community! I am very glad to be here with you all.

    In my newly published book "The Way Home" I use the he structure of the Hopi poem, “We Are the Ones We’ve Been Waiting For,” to convey the need for authenticity and fearlessness in every action in these very important times:

    We are the Ones We've Been Waiting For

    You have been telling the people that this is the Eleventh Hour. Now you must go back and tell the people that this is The Hour.

    And there are things to be considered:

    Where are you living?

    What are you doing?

    What are your relationships?

    Are you in right relation?

    Where is your water?

    Know your garden.

    It is time to speak your Truth.

    Create your community. Be good to each other. And do not look outside yourself for the leader.

    This could be a good time!

    There is a river flowing now very fast. It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid. They will try to hold on to the shore. They will feel they are being torn apart, and they will suffer greatly.

    Know the river has its destination. The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off into the middle of the river, keep your eyes open, and our heads above the water. See who is there with you and celebrate.

    At this time in history, we are to take nothing personally. Least of all, ourselves. For the moment that we do, our spiritual growth and journey comes to a halt.

    The time of the lone wolf is over. Gather yourselves!

    Banish the word struggle from your attitude and your vocabulary.

    All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration.

    We are the ones we've been waiting for.

                                               ---The Elders Oraibi, Arizona Hopi Nation

    This poem is about many things: our relationships, our livelihood, our community, but mostly it is about embodying the essence of our truth. It is my opinion that if we do this, if we live our most authentic life, then we not only feed ourselves but we feed others, we feed our communities, we feed the earth, we feed all of consciousness. When we live authentically, when we let go of the shore, we free ourselves from living in heartache and blame, and we live in love. This is the journey. This is true healing.    --David Santangelo

  • Lenten reflection 4: Four Words

    The God Who Only knows Four Words

    Every

       child

       has known God.

    Not the God of names.

    Not the God of don’ts.

    Not the God who ever does

       anything weird.

    But the God who only knows four words

    And keeps repeating them, saying:

    “Come dance with me.”

    Come

       dance.

                                --Hafiz 

    This is my quiet reflection today.  How could I miss a beat, a step, a nuance, a glance when I say that what I really want is to fall into the heart of God?  Do I really want to tango? My self-consciousness and fear of exposure for being on fire flares up, imagining being bent over backward and looked at by God that way. Maybe it’s more of a foxtrot that’s quick and lively and not all that personal.  Since  I don’t really know the dance, I guess for once in my life I have to follow instead of trying to lead. 

    What’s my biggest fear? That I would find out that I’m on fire with love?  That’s not so bad.  We all have to burn sometime.  It’s just a choice of when.

    This is part of a series of Lenten reflections. Over the time of Lent friends and I are doing a Lenten study course with Christine Valters Paintner from the wonderful  Abbey of the Arts I will be writing some of my reflections, returning to ancient practices that can help me renew my most sacred vows.  This is not easy or done without discernment, having left most religious ‘trappings’ behind.  But I’m feeling drawn to revisit and see them with new eyes, as if for the first time.  I hope you will consider traveling with me/us on this pilgrimage to the Heart of the Matter.   There are challenges to reading the words of scripture that I struggle with. Challenges to allowing my heart door to creak open to their meaning, much of which feels so irrelevant and discordant with what I know of God's love to be.  And I’m determined to be on my way.

     

    Lenten reflection 1: Ashes on my third eye

    Lenten reflection 2: Having it my way

    Lenten reflection 3: Hell is breaking out in the kingdom of God

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  • falling through ceilings

    Working with dreams is a little like creating a stained glass window blindfolded.

    While in Mexico recently I had dream of which I remember only a fragment.  In the dream I am falling through layers of glass ceilings.

    In each of the four layers there are circles of stained glass, and I am falling face down in the middle of each of them, spread eagle like Da Vinci’s Vitruvian Man.  The first window that I fall through was similar to the Vitruvian Man and that I was matching his wide open stance.  As I fell through that first circle, the glass shattered like safety glass and I felt it falling on me like sleet or heavy rain, but it did not hurt me.  Immediately I fell through another circular glass window much like the Rose windows of Gothic cathedrals.  Next was a yellow and blue window that may have  had Celtic knots in its design.  As I hit the fourth window I woke up.  I don’t remember what it looked like, but it seemed to have some earth tones.  I was unharmed by all the shattered glass and distinctly remember it falling on my back without any pain. 

    I was startled at hitting the first stained glass window, but the next two were not even startling.  I don’t know why I woke up at the fourth window.

    This is all I remember of the dream.   Whatever do you think it means? Any impressions that you have, I’d love to hear.  They will all be helpful in unpacking this mystery…

    I grabbed these images from wikipedia because I can’t do justice to the beauty of the  dream-windows;  these images help illustrate the impressions made of the windows.

    First window

    Second window

    Celtic Pinwheel Stained Glass Window CW4

    Third window?

    Irish Windmill Stained Glass Window from Stained Glass and More

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Third window--these were more the colors that imprinted.

    Fourth window was earth toned, but I have no impression of the image on it.

     
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  • the big slide

     

    what if

    instead of running

    we

    slid gracefully

    …out of time

    …out of space

    …out of patience?

     

    Sliding gracefully out of patience.

    Doesn’t that have a different tonal quality 

       than ‘running out of patience’?

    [Guy Zinn, New York AL, sliding back into first base against Boston at Hilltop Park, New York City (baseball)] (LOC) by The Library of Congress. 
    1910 Guy Zinn, New York AL, sliding back into first base against Boston at Hilltop Park, New York City. 
    From the Flickr collection of the Library of Congress. No copyright restrictions known.

     

    Submission for One Single Impression’s prompt for the week: running.  Thanks to that quirky Jim's Little Photo & Poem Blog for this week’s prompt.

     

  • Lenten reflection 3: Hell is breaking out in the kingdom of God

    “The kingdom of God is like a feast where everyone is welcomed with a jubilant divine indiscriminacy, like the prodigal son whose return brings tears to his father’s eyes or the lost sheep that counts more than the ninety-nine that never strayed.

    “The kingdom of God is like a great party that is thrown for everyone, where even slightly seedy characters who were never invited are compelled to come in and have a drink.

    “The kingdom of God is opened up by the event of hospitality the way the day is opened up the rising of the sun.

    “The kingdom of god is a community without community, a city without walls, a nation without borders, unconditional hospitality without sovereign power, where the decision procedure for admission is based on a holy undecidability between insider and outsider. 

    “For all the world it looks as if hell has broken out, the holy hell that we have been insisting all along is the stuff of sacred anarchy.”

     

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    Last night at a birthday party for a friend, one of my Lenten study—mates and I were discussing, actually commiserating about, the Lenten biblical texts that are being sent to us each day by Christine over at  Abbey of the Arts (the abbey without walls!).  I know this won’t be a surprise to regular visitors to the VTH but one of the emerging themes in the study group  is our struggle with the scripture as it is written: much of it is exclusive, punitive and divisive.  It was written from and for the times that it served.  We understand that the language is half the problem, but we’re not sure what the other half-problem is.  However, we’re persevering, knowing that we need to struggle with those images and words that are deep in our cultural and religious DNA.  We want to find out why we’re half-breeds, why we can’t take the stuff lying down.  Why we have felt that we’d rather put ourselves out in the cold rather than succumb to the numbing of how the words are interpreted by some, if not many, religious institutions. 

    So when my friend leaned over and said, ‘maybe what we’re supposed to be wrestling with is the abuse that has been brought about by the words, and not the words themselves’, a bell went off in my head.  Not a siren…but a chime, a call to attention. 

    The abuse perpetrated by these words is what rankles me, stirs up my holy ire. Or at least it feels holy.

    Give us this day our daily bread;
    and forgive us our trespasses,
    as we forgive those who trespass against us;
    and lead us not into temptation,
    but deliver us from evil.
    "If you forgive men their transgressions,
    your heavenly Father will forgive you.
    But if you do not forgive men,
    neither will your Father forgive your transgressions.

    How can we be sure that our forgiveness for sins-that we may know or not know about-is contingent on our forgiving others?  From that stance we’ve become doormats for systemic abuse, forgiving and trying to forget.  What if the meaning  is actually more like:

    “If you do the work to know that you are no different from those you assume have trespassed against you, you will see that we’re all in this together.  And if you take it deeper, you’ll see that the state of being fallen from grace really is about not understanding who you are in the big picture. As your Father, I co-created you better than that!  For God’s sake, stand up-take it all on! Acknowledge your co-creative powers and get on with it!  You’re a child of God, made of the same star-stuff.  You, the human race, are not God, but you are a piece of God.  Forgiving other Pieces of God is a slam dunk. Youse guys have got bigger things to do than that.”  

    And reflection this morning on yesterday’s text…

    "Ask and it will be given to you
    seek and you will find;
    knock and the door will be opened to you.
    For everyone who asks, receives;
    and the one who seeks, finds;
    and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.”

    …got me to thinking about the kingdom of God.  Who’s in?  How could we possibly be ‘out’?  For whom does the door not open?  Who, at some point in their life has not asked the important question, knocked on the only door there is?   And why don’t we recognize the door as open?  Is it because we’re so fearful that it could possibly be not open that we assume that it isn’t?  And the fear would come from…worrying that we’ve not been forgiven, because we haven’t forgiven. Other than human stupidity, is there anything to actually forgive?  And can we forgive ourselves for having been abused by not accepting our power, rightful rank and responsibility?

    Yikes.  Can you see how confounding and enriching this lectio divina stuff is?

    I’d saved the beginning quote of this post from somewhere, and I don’t know where—so if anyone knows, please let me know so I can credit it.  The reason it spoke to me when I first came across it was that last thought about sacred anarchy.  About blowing up the walls of the kingdom so that we can no longer speak to in/out.  

    The sacred chaos of this act of anarchy, dark and purple, is stunning me into silence.

    However, the blathering of holy blither will continue soon, in a kingdom near you.   Very near.   Closer-than-your-own-skin kind of near.

     

    Lenten reflection 1: Ashes on my third eye

    Lenten reflection 2: Having it my way

     

  • tree love: out of the closet

    This is a submission for the 45th Festival of the Trees hosted this edition at the very cool The Voltage Gate.  Here’s also the link to the Festival of the Trees homepage.   

     

    I have a few trees in my slightly larger than a breadbox yard here in Bend, Oregon.

    Two large blue spruce, a crabapple and a dying mountain ash in my front yard.

    A large weeping birch, also slowly losing the battle to bronze borer beetle in the backyard, along with a couple of plum trees and an encroaching thicket of aspens. AND, oh joy, a volunteer ponderosa now about 6 years old that will someday, with a little bit of grace, take over the back yard when the birch succumbs.

    I am intimate with all these trees.  I groom and care for them, talk with them, write about them, watercolor them, laugh with them.  They give me much more than I can ever say.  Or maybe it’s more than I ever will say.  Maybe the mystery of tree-love needs to stay protected from the uninitiated?

    Here is a look at the crabapple in my front yard the day after a recent snowstorm. Can you see how impossible it is not to love her? Even though she strains the relationship with the annual dumping of bounty in October…

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    The first view didn’t catch your heart? Here’s another.

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    Oh, all right, here’s yet another, since you asked so nicely.

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    Since I’ve had trees as friends since childhood (my BFF then was a large weeping willow back in upstate Pennsylvania)  I can’t imagine what it must be like to be tree-bereft, or tree-oblivious.  I’m sure I’ve not been as open-hearted as I could be with trees, but I’m learning, and they are great teachers.

     

  • Lenten reflection 2: Having it my way

    Ok.  So there’s all these words and characters (some noble, some not so much) in the Bible, but for those of us born as buttoned-down Christians, or even as cultural ones, the primary relationship is with Jesus.  So I’m going out on a limb here in this post.  You don’t have to follow.  Maybe you shouldn’t even stand close this week, as inexplicable things may happen to me.  If they do, you know who to blame.  Don’t you?

    Duck and dodge.

    That’s how I’ve related to Jesus.

    He’s my teacher

       and I’m afraid of him.

    What if I don’t get my lessons?

    What if I don’t get any of it right?

    What if he really doesn’t care?

    What if he’s jealous about my relationship with the Buddha (I have slept with the Buddha after all—but that’s another post).

    What if he doesn’t like all the shuckin’ and jivin’ of my beloved Sufi mystics and poets?  

    What if there is some small bone in his little finger that is full of brimstone?

     

    So, after years of theological work and spiritual longing

    I’ve decided that his place in my heart as a far-distant cousin, twice removed

       is not close enough.

    Does that mean that I have to sit next to him and hold his hand, for God’s sake?

     

    He didn’t want us to start a religion in his name. Peter made that up.

    He was a reformer of the practices as they were, of Judaism.  He was a catalyst.

    He was a radical.

       He wanted us to rend our heart, not our garments.

       He wants us to rend our heart, not our garments.

    The mistakes of Adam and yes, too, of Eve

       are as present in my heart as they were in theirs.

     

    I want to have it my way.  Like Burger King says I can.

    What if Jesus says, ‘ That’s cool.  Your way to rest is really the same as mine?’

    Then what?

    The passage for this past week’s group Lent study was:

    Yahweh says this:

    ‘Put yourselves in the ways of long ago

    Inquire about ancient paths.

    Which was the good way?

    Take it and then you shall find rest.’

    But what if I find what I’m really looking for  when I look into his eyes?

    Religion-Flowchart_1 
    Flowchart from Dave Pollard’s unabashedly irreverent blog: how to save the world. Dave borrowed it from holytaco, a site full of funny stuff.

     

    This is the second in a series of Lenten reflections. Over the next five weeks, friends and I are doing a Lenten study course with Christine Valters Paintner from the wonderful  Abbey of the Arts.  I will be writing some of my reflections, returning to ancient practices that can help me renew my most sacred vows.  This is not easy or done without discernment, having left most religious ‘trappings’ behind.  But I’m feeling drawn to revisit and see them with new eyes, as if for the first time.  I hope you will consider traveling with me/us on this pilgrimage to the Heart of the Matter.   There are challenges to reading the words of scripture that I struggle with. Challenges to allowing my heart door to creak open to their meaning, much of which feels so irrelevant and discordant with what I know of God's love to be.  And I’m determined to be on my way.

     

  • somnambudance

    somnambudance:  a condition of sleep-dancing with such grace, creativity and precision that one appears to be awake; condition may in rare cases imitate insomina.

    Making up words to describe what I dreamed after watching ‘This is It’,  realizing that the profound creativity  Michael Jackson manifested was with almost no natural sleep—at least in his adult life.

    ThisIsItMJ.jpg

    I dreamt that Michael was a rare bird from some exotic jungle

       not of this world

    Looking for his mate.

    Unable to find her/him

       even though Michael's magnificent display of feather and fur

       was more than our mortal souls could take in,

    Exhausted and heart broken

    He finally slept.

     

    Michael—you brought us ahead a few light years with your unwillingness, indeed incapacity, to be categorized.  Your personal suffering is our species’ gain.  You are honored for the amazing work you did.   Rest in sweet peace.

          
    Michael Joseph Jackson (August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009)

     

    Submission for One Single Impression prompt: insomnia.  Thanks to Felicity of Confessions of a Philosophy Junkie for the prompt and your beautiful poem in response to it.   Moonwalk your self over to OSI and wander through the wonderful expressions for this single prompt.

  • God in 100 words or less

    Someone wise said something like:

    ‘I wouldn’t walk across the street to talk to

    a God I could understand.’

     

    Not this.  Not that.

    The process of elimination

       the via negativa

       these are the most meaningful

    personal pilgrimages

    to God.

     

    Meanwhile

    The apricot sapling

    springs joyfully

    from the compost pile.

    And my heart leaps in love.

     

    So there you have it.

    God in and of the compost.

    Who knew?

    escape

    Written as a response to Christine Valters Paintner’s ‘God in 100 Words or Less’ blog theme for Patheos.  I invite you to post your own entry to this theme on either of those sites, on your own blog, or joy of joy, right here below in the comments!

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  • Lenten reflection 1: Ashes on my third eye

    Ash Wednesday.JPG 
    click on picture to visit the story ‘With Mardi Gras over, Lent Begins’

     

    Last night as I lowered my eyes

       ashes on my forehead

    marking the spot where heaven meets earth

    the crucible of the thing

    heart breaking open

        teshuvah

         returning to an earlier state

    sorrowfulness for having left Eden

       and gone 

       naked

       into my life

    even if for just a moment 

         turning my face away from the Shekinah.

     

    Today I put my whole life force into motion

       all my attention, singularly focused

    to turn my face

    my being

       back towards the Source.

     

    This turning is like moving a battleship.

    It will take about 40 days.

    Only then to start the path of leaving home and returning

       all over again.

    But now, well now,

    I get it.

     

    It’s not about being bad or wrong or left out of the Circle.

    It’s about that almost endearing human thing we do.

    We get distracted.

     

    I want to see clearly. 

    That’s why I put ashes on my third eye.

     

    Over the next six weeks, friends and I are doing a Lenten study course with Christine Valters Paintner from the wonderful  Abbey of the Arts.  I will be writing some of my reflections, returning to ancient practices that can help me renew my most sacred vows.  This is not easy or done without discernment, having left most religious ‘trappings’ behind.  But I’m feeling drawn to revisit and see them with new eyes, as if for the first time.  I hope you will consider traveling with me/us on this pilgrimage to the Heart of the Matter.

  • No longer suspecting

     

    One of my teachers, Jonathan,  says:

    There are three things that we need to know, deeper than our own breath:

    1. We are Love: nothing more, nothing less. 

            Calcified, reified, rarified, embodied love.

    2. There is enough of everything in the universe.

            No need to snatch, grab, greed, lust, crave, despair about anything, especially love.

    3. And finally:  laughter opens the heart.

          Crackled, as with specialty paint.

         A broken heart is an open heart.

     

    Being single is like most things:

        both sides of the coin are graced.

     What I remember from those days of pride

       nights of rumbling and range-fed angst

       was suspecting in my heart of hearts

       that the three pillars noted above

    Were all I needed.

     

    The distinction is

    Now I know.

     

    zhivetin-daydreamersgaze  
    Daydreamers by Oleg Zhivetin

    Thanks to the Amateur Poet of Figments of Imagination for this week's  One Single Impression prompt: single.  Visit OSI for more than a single perspective on this prompt!

    I will be out of the country for the next week, and will visit my OSI friends’ posts as soon as possible when I return!

     

  • Something to do on a Sunday (or any other day)

    A couple of Sundays ago I spent a few hours in the kitchen/dining room of the local Bend's Community Center (BCC), where every Sunday, 52 weeks a year, full nutritious meals, along with sack lunches to go, are served for those who are homeless or underemployed.  The amount of people coming through range from 200-300 per Sunday.  Many of these folks are part of family units. 

    This meal is one of several programs provided by BCC for this group of people in Central Oregon.  In addition,  the BCC is only one of several services that provide meals and food to the disadvantaged in our area;  in total it is a program called Feed the Hungry.

    Because of their newly remodeled industrial kitchen, BCC now provides cooked meals for other shelters and meal kitchens (who do not have industrial kitchens) across Central Oregon.  These other agencies bring raw food materials to the BCC,  BCC volunteers prepare it and send the food back ready for distribution.  The BCC kitchen is busy every day.

    As part of my Rotary Club of Bend  responsibilities, I was moving through my duties at BCC, which included washing pots, pans, serving dishes, putting things away, stocking the tables, and other duties as noticed or request.  While I was performing these duties, my thoughts wandered here:

    This is hard physical work!  How does Taffy (the Executive Director) do this every day, every week, all year long?

    The regular volunteers, several of whom come every week, without fail, are nothing short of angels.  NOTE: In talking with them, they are all humble, quiet people who just are doing their parts towards a larger community goal of taking care of those who are at this time less fortunate.

    There’s some tough love here.  Taffy had to get tough with some of the regular guests—who were attempting to take home more than their share of leftovers, or other commodities provided by BCC.

    Why don’t I come more often than on my Rotary rotations?  Every time I come I’m so humbled and inspired…why don’t I just get on with it and come more often? (So far no answer to that question…)

    I had told Taffy that I was going to post to the Virtual Tea House about what’s going on over at the BCC regarding these meals.  So when I got home I sent her an email with some questions.  Here are her answers.

    1.      How long has BCC been serving these meals?  
    Since 2004
    NOTE: That’s 312 Sunday meals for 200+ people…

    2.      What would it cost to do a single meal (if you had to buy all the food)?  
    About $1150

    NOTE: On the Sunday I was there, they were serving wild salmon, ‘recovered’ from poachers, along with delicious hollandaise sauce donated Deschutes Brewery, along with great salads, sides, mounds of buttery mashed potatoes, pies and loads and loads of artisan breads for the guests to take home.  This was all donated by the community at large.

    3.      How many volunteers do you have?
    We have hundreds throughout the year. On an average about 40 per week.

    NOTE: About 15 volunteers are there every week.  Every single week.  These volunteers were very glad that our Rotary club members there to provide some assistance, especially with clean up which sometimes takes the regular volunteers and Taffy until 7pm on a given Sunday, if there’s not enough help.  We were done by 5:30pm.

    4.      What are some of the projects that need doing?
    We have painting projects, putting shelves together at our warehouse for donations, sorting donations, ripping up old carpet and putting down peel and press carpet at the thriftstore. We also do eBay sales and could sue a regular crew to help with that. We need to take digital photos of our eBay items , load them onto the eBay site with a description of the item.  We need someone to snowplow our parking lot in the winter, landscaping in the spring and summer. This summer we want to remodel Becca’s Closet to make it more efficient and more attractive. It’s pretty ugly right now.

    NOTE: Taffy said she could use 20 volunteers a day to do a few hours of work.  The needs are never ending.

    5.      Do you have a short story about someone’s life being changed or something like that you’d like to share?
    We have helped several homeless women and their kids to get into a house, into our job training program and turn their lives around. We’ve donated 5 cars to families without cars. We've gotten 7 job trainees cars fixed up so they were safe to drive (new tires, brake jobs, and other basic necessities).

    6.      Any stories about the volunteers, or donations by the community that you’d like to share?
    We’ve had 4-Hr’s donate their pigs and lambs to our FTH program. We've had little kids do penny drives in their neighborhoods and brought in $14 worth of pennies. Girl scouts have made candles for the homeless and done warm clothing drives. One man went out and bought over $1,000 worth of tents, tarps and winter boots for the homeless. Another man wet to Cash N Carry and bought a week’s worth of food for us. We have several retired ladies on fixed incomes who go shopping for us every month to find our basic necessities on sale and donate $20 - $25 worth of food and cleaning supplies and toilet paper every month. One neighborhood and a huge multifamily garage sale and donated the proceeds to FTH (Feed the Hungry).

    Ron B. is one of our long-time volunteers. He is 70, legally blind, but he comes in almost every Friday and Saturday from 9am – 2pm to cook for the homeless. We have about 15 volunteers who have been coming in almost every week for 2-3 years, including high school kids. 

    You can see why my heart was opened, yet again, by the mission of BCC.  Taffy herself is an inspiration: committed, tough, resourceful, a great manager of people and resources.  She has her volunteers’ respect and admiration.

    If any of this has touched your heart, go on over to the website and check the BCC out. It’s for real.  And it is only through the generosity of the community that the mission of BCC can survive and thrive.  BCC needs your heart and your hands!   And maybe, if I get off my duff, or give up a hike on a Sunday, you’ll see me there…

    Call Bend's Community Center at 541.312.2069 to find out how you can be of service.

    Website: Bend Community Center

  • head over heels

    Left. Right.

    It doesn’t really matter.

    It doesn’t even matter if you turn.

    But if you’re going to take the curve on two wheels

    you better be ready.

    Consequences abound.

                     
    Kansas State Parks-Wilson Lake  (Hell Creek Area)

      
    Submission for the One Single Impression prompt: blowing the curve.    Mojo of  "Why, What Have You Heard?" brings us this prompt. Check out the variety of ways this prompt is interpreted by a bunch of blown-curve poets. 

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